Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Lauren Conrad at HTC event!

Lauren Conrad at Lucky Magazine event!

Kristin Cavallari pulls out the white hot bikini!

Kristin Cavallari hits the runway barely dressed!

Jay Cutler too controlling or too mature for Kristin Cavallari?

Quarterbacks need to take charge on the field – but was Jay Cutler too controlling in his relationship with Kristin Cavallari?

A friend of Cavallari, who knew the couple socially, says the Chicago Bears quarterback made things difficult for his former fiancée prior to calling off their engagement.

"Jay Cutler was beyond controlling and didn't really like Kristin to go out," the friend says. "When she did go out, he called all the time and demanded to know exactly where she was going and who she was with."

The friend adds: "He made her choose between him and being friends with a lot of her girlfriends. I'm not surprised it didn't last."

Cavallari, 24, and Cutler, 28, were first linked last summer. The former Hills star had been planning a wedding for next spring, and is said to be "absolutely devastated" by the end of her relationship.

Whenever I hear the friends card, I think the person is too immature to get married, if you want to go out then you should not be getting married.

Jay Cutler kicks Kristin Cavallari to the curb just like Matt Leinart did!

Kristin Cavallari and fiancé Jay Cutler

This is not the fairy-tale ending Kristin Cavallari was hoping for.

After just 10 months together, Cavallari and Chicago Bears quarterback Jay Cutler have called off their engagement, a source confirms to PEOPLE.

"She got dumped," says another source. "She's absolutely devastated. She can't believe this is happening."

The couple, who were planning a spring wedding, became engaged in April, when Cutler popped the question in Mexico. They had been spending much of their time recently in Chicago, and Cavallari had planned to move there during the upcoming football season.

"She was planning her dream wedding, the date was set, the location – everything was set," the source says. "She's in shock that the dream wedding she was planning is going to end this way."

Just a week ago, Cavallari Tweeted about her engagement party. "Thx to all my amazing friends for making my engagement party a blast last night!" she wrote.

The couple had completed their wedding registry, and Cavallari was determined to be in great shape for the wedding.

Saturday night Cavallari hit The Beverly, an L.A. lounge, and was spotted without her engagement ring.

"She was hanging out at a table with Nicky Hilton and Alessandra Ambrosio," a source tells PEOPLE. "She was telling friends how they called off the engagement."

A rep for Cavallari had no comment.